Mrs.Scared and Intimidated

Dear C.B.U,
Hello there I am Ethel Rogers and I am so sorry to bother you but I am having problems with my husband and employer. You see my husband and I have worked for this certain employer for more than 7 years already but what my husband wants to do is against the law. He wants to keep the medicine from the old lady(our employer) so that she will be pronounced as having succumbed to a heart attack. The reason for that is that the Mrs. we work for has left us her inheritance in the will and he doesn't want to wait for a natural death he kind-of wants to occur now. I have thought of going against him but I can't but if I do this I know that I will not be able to live with a clear conscience through the rest of my lifetime. Please help me with this and please don't involve any officials or professionals they might report him and he will suffer. I just want a way to ensure our safety but also the Missus's safety.
-Ethel Rogers


Dear Ethel Rogers,

It feels like you are being dominated by your husband Mrs.Rogers I have contacted a private specialist who will NOT disclose any of your personal information but has given me some tips to pass on to you. This certain specialist has stated that you, Mrs.Rogers are unwilling to do it so you should first discuss it with your husband but if he's the abusive type seek a person that you trust unconditionally or a private specialist that can help you. We also think it's better if you tell the police about your situation and help them keep tabs on it but if you are reluctant to do this then make sure to protect your employer and yourself from your husband. We aren't suggesting that you be armed but just make sure that besides Plan A you have Plan B( a safety net). For example, plan A would be protecting your employer in any way capable from your husband (since she's an old and frail lady) and plan B could be you having told the police and they keep tabs by installing security cameras around the room and giving your employer a button to press for emergencies(this would include making your employer aware of your husband's motives while telling her to please spare him because you aren't sure whether he would commit the crime or not).
If somehow your husband manages to find out make sure that you have methods/ways of protecting yourself the easiest is to be armed other ways include having a button/beeper to quickly press for emergencies. If your husband is the gentle type (STILL RETAIN YOUR WEAPON NEAR YOU) try to explain to him that you aren't trying to rat him out that you are trying to save him (really unlikely to talk to him at this point though). The easiest way to protect both you and your employer though is to tell on your husband this isn't the same as being a tattletale it's being brave and courageous enough Mrs.Rogers. If you ever need my help you can reach me by my HOTLINE: 1800-CBU. REMEMBER TO ALWAYS CONSIDER NOT ONLY THE MISSUS' SAFETY FIRST BUT ALSO YOURS!
-Caring A LOT about you, C.B.U