Dear C.B.U,
I am sincerely writing to you to speak about my life problems. It all started when my fellow friend introduced me to a person named "Arthur Hamilton." This Hamilton guy was one of the best men under my service and my wife understood that too and at first the three of us were best buds. But then I started to feel weird because Hamilton and my wife, Leslie became much closer all of the sudden. When I wasn't available it seemed like they didn't give a care in the world and pretty soon they would laugh about many things I never understood. Now, most people would think that I am being too sensitive but the day I feared eventually came. You see as a General I had been dispatched along with my troops (which included Hamilton) to Africa and soon I received a letter from my wife. I was both elated and ecstatic I missed her so much I opened the letter and it said "My Dear True Love, You are my only one Hamilton, the only one I had ever loved...." Please help me I don't what I should do? I want revenge against both of them but I love Leslie way too much to do that. But I cannot be content until justice is served to both of them!
-General MacArthur
Dear General MacArthur,
Revenge is never the right solution to problems even though you might feel extremely tempted since you have been wronged. But think about it will revenge bring anything good for anyone? The best thing to do is to ask your wife straight out about it and if she says yes I love Hamilton more than you then set her free. Ever heard of the saying "It's better being free and alone than caged and together." The most vital thing here is the art of communication. Being able to discuss this with her will enable you to see her side of the story. She might have been lonely and has just sought for what she thinks is romance elsewhere it might also not be the case. But whatever the case might be "Communicate, speak along with her, and try to understand her (will be complicated)."
If given the scenario, where your wife's feelings are on/off then you must make the choice of staying together or divorcing but think about it this way being together is no use when the hearts aren't there. You might have her but you don't have her heart right and what you want is her heart because you love her and it's painful if she doesn't reciprocate the feelings you feel for her. Justice will be served eventually somehow and someway the world is often fair and I believe in this little thing called karma but if you seek for revenge it shall seek you back. Revenge is often complicated it's a cycle of grudges that build up one after another be the bigger person and cut the cycle off before it can even start. After all, there are always more fish in the sea and life goes on.
-With Care, C.B.U